September 8, 2026 | Posted in: Living Hartfully
Following the trail of learning all I could about Highly Sensitive People, (remember depth of processing is a trait for a Highly Sensitive Person), I found it wasn’t the whole story and not completely true of me and my experiences and my traits. I realized that I also had very high scores in Dr. Elaine Aaron’s quiz on High Sensation Seekers. It turns out that I’m at the tippy top of both traits – meaning all six of my senses are on overdrive and wide open at all times and I need novelty, thrills, challenging experiences and I also need quiet time, rest, and to cautiously approach the challenges. That is where Dr. Tracy Cooper’s book Thrill: The High Sensation Seeking Highly Sensitive Person comes in.
Books and Docuseries by Dr. Tracy M. Cooper, Ph.D. – one of the leading authorities and researchers on Highly Sensitive People and High Sensation Seekers. https://drtracycooper.org/
Thrive: The Highly Sensitive Person and Career
Thrill: The High Sensation Seeking Highly Sensitive Person
Consulting-Producer of Sensitive Men Rising-The Documentary Series: https://sensitivemenrising.org/
Thrill is the first book of its kind to really explain what it means to be a High Sensation Seeking Highly Sensitive Person. And it does so brilliantly to put into perspective what it means to live with such traits and how to strategically create and manage your life to avoid overwhelm and avoid boredom. Looking back at my life, it explains so much of why I did and felt and experienced what I did and it helped me reframe all of those experiences.
High Sensation Seekers can have all four characteristics and in differing doses of each characteristic, or they can have a variety of mixtures of any or all of the four. I happen to have a very high dosage of all four characteristics of the trait of a High Sensation Seeker. No wonder I chose the type of career, jobs, hobbies, sports, relationships, and living conditions that I did – it all made sense after reading his book.
The four characteristics can be remembered by the pneumonic BAND
Boredom susceptibility: is an inner state of mind where optimal stimulation, arousal, and intrigue are lacking. Boredom easily creeps in to High Sensation Seeker’s lives in even the most modest amounts. Boredom and an inability to tolerate repetitive our routine experiences can cause irritability, agitated states, restlessness, or even depression. Those with this trait find themselves seeking an escape from the monotony of routine and dull existences and tend to shake things up in travel, living conditions, jobs, relationships or hobbies/sports to regain the feeling of variety and intensity and learn something new again. They are curious and continuous learners.
Adventure and thrill/risk seeking: is one way to avoid the boredom susceptibility by taking the leap, taking on the challenge, and sometimes discounting the risk in order to experience the thrill of the activity/decision. The excited feeling of being truly alive and in the rapture of the moment caused by adrenaline to induce an optimal state of arousal. It has been described as a genetically influenced tendency to seek physical challenges such as rock climbing, skiing, SCUBA diving, sky diving and other similar pursuits that are intrinsically rewarding to the brain. It’s not necessarily reckless, it is challenge by choice intersected with unknown and potential outcomes with a cautious approach.
New experiences and novelty seeking: is the third characteristic and it does not necessarily have to be thrill seeking, just something new. Those with this trait are very curious about the world, how things work, researching, reading, experiencing, tasting, feeling, listening and seeing new things around them or traveling to go experience them. Foodies are new experience seekers – the tastes, the textures, the ambiance, the smells, how it looks on the plate and the community of eating together – all new and novel experiences. Creatives usually have this trait – seeking new ways to create something, do creative problem solving, comedians thinking of new ways of looking at the world, creating art as a way to make new things, sewing, cooking, painting, spiritual journeys. They have a strong desire for personal growth and exploration within and all around them.
Disinhibition: shows up in ways that may buck the social norms or expectations of family/friends/society/colleagues. Those with this trait can demonstrate impulsivity, follow their dreams no matter what, test driving new ways of being/living/dressing/exercise/financial investments/drugs/sexuality or bending the rules to experience more stimulation and reject the boredom of the mundane for excitement and surprise and feeling alive. It can show up as boldness and YOLO (you only live once) and they can be the leaders to instigate the bold actions/experiences just to see how it feels. They take calculated (and sometimes not so calculated risks) just to get the sensation of the outcome.
So there lies the paradox if you are a Highly Sensitive Person, that trait generally is risk avoidant while the High Sensation Seeker gets a rush out of novelty, thrill seeking, adventure, and seeks out challenges that may be risky to feel the sensation with depth and purpose. Therein lies the foundation of living with both traits, with one foot on the gas and one foot on the brake as the Sensitive Sensation Seeker moves through the world trying to honor both traits. Particularly if you have high amounts – all characteristics of both traits more than those with a sprinkling of one or two characteristics of a trait. It’s all about nuance.
To learn more about the paradox of Thrill – pick up Dr. Tracy Cooper’s books on the topic and watch the 3-part docu-series of Sensitive Men Rising. It will open your eyes to what you or a loved one may be experiencing and help you reframe it.
More to come on Sensitive Sensation Seekers – AKA – Wild Sensitives.
